Sexuality Coaching for Couples
These days it seems that the number one reason people are getting divorced is because of sex. No sex, not enough sex, not enough of the right kind of sex.
And this is mainly because we often don't know what we want sexually. We haven't learned about what turns us on. We see modeling in movies and porn.
However, that's a different kind of eroticism. Together, we will explore your erotic truth. Not a story or a simulation. Those scripts don't work for everyone, and they don't work all the time.
Some Couples Have a Pretty Good Sex Life
Yiou have satisfying sex on a regular basis that doesn't create stress or anxiety for either one of you. Yet, perhaps there might be a little yearning for something more.
A little more steamy, a little bit more kinky, a little more playful. Something a little different! All of these shifts can create new erotic energy. I can be your guide to exploring new ways of being together.
Consistent connection, deeper intimacy, and more pleasure
After taking an in-depth sexual history from each of you, I will share specific exercises and help you create sacred space to reconnect and explore together. I can introduce new ways to build connection and attunement - essential elements to a healthy and vital sexual relationship. 
Especially for couples who are not having sex
A sexless relationship can be healthy if both partners feel close and supported and their needs are being met. However, if one partner desires more sex than the other, it can lead to frustration, resentment, and possibly infidelity.
I can help you find new ways to communicate, share intimate/sensual touch and find your way back to one another.
Let's talk about sex. About what kind of sex you want to be having. And then let's make it happen. Let's redefine sexuality on your terms.
Common Challenges Couples Experience
In many cases, couples present with a primary concern that is often intertwined with other underlying issues. The dynamics of power within a couple can complicate the situation. Frequently, one partner might express that the other partner has a sexual issue, though this perception may or may not accurately reflect the reality. It's important to participate in a joint session with both partners to thoroughly understand your interactions, followed by individual sessions to gain deeper insights into each of your perspectives and experiences.
Here's a list of the 8 top sexual concerns couples experience.
- Little or no sex in the relationship
- Aversion to touch or misplaced touch communication
- Conflicts about desire/uneven desire (desire discrepancy)
- Conflicting values about monogamy/affairs
- Performance skills deficit
- Body image issues
- Communication style conflicts
- Negotiation skills deficit
I've worked with clients who have experienced all of these concerns and am ready to connect with you and offer helpful suggestions to improve the quality of your sexual relationship.