The intention of a cuddle party is to provide a safe, structured space to experience non-sexual physical intimacy through cuddling while also practicing healthy communication, respecting boundaries, and learning to ask for and say no to touch, within a consensual environment.

Why do we cuddle?

Well, because it feels good! Human beings crave physical contact and can experience the healing benefits of safe, platonic, and nurturing touch. Touch that isn't going anywhere. Touch creates oxytocin (the pleasure and bonding hormone and a sense of well-being). 

We also cuddle to experience connection and intimacy. We come together to practice consent, establish boundaries, and learn what it feels like to negotiate for the kind of touch we want. Through a series of games, we'll learn that every "NO" is met with "Thank you for taking care of yourself" and that even a "Maybe" or "I'm not sure" is a NO. You'll get clear on what your body is telling you and how to find your enthusiastic YES.

Don't worry; you won't be cuddling strangers! 

We'll practice authentic relating and mindful listening. We'll learn to connect and develop emotional intimacy through a series of exercises designed to help us get to know our peers and to practice consent before we cuddle. There will be an hour's worth of connection and consent exercises before cuddling.

I am a certified Cuddler and Cuddle Party facilitator. I love finding ways to experience and share connection, intimacy, and pleasure. As a sensuality coach and advocate, I've learned firsthand how cuddle parties can elicit transformative healing.

If you're interested in learning more and being invited to a small group meeting (10-12 people), please complete the form below.